Author J Roe

Writing quirky characters on redemptive journeys

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What Is Even Happening? (and all the silly updates)

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Umm . . . What Is Even Happening?

My three musketeers and I trade videos back and forth to keep updated on each other’s lives since we live so far apart. In doing so, these impromptu videos are full of all sorts of unscripted ridiculous moments. One bestie is constantly saying “What is even happening?” and she tries to describe in words what defies description. She often gives up and turns the camera around so that we can witness the insanity of the moment. We’re talking crazy cats, rogue turkeys, and snarky teens.

Well, I’m turning around the camera so that you, my loyal readers and true friends, can witness the insanity. For the truth is, I really don’t know what all is happening, but it is proving to be quite the ride. Buckle up!

Health, Wellness, and Moving Forward

In March of 2022 my mental and physical health was at an all time low. Migraines were debilitating to the point that again I could no longer leave my home. My weight had skyrocketed as I sought comfort in food, but food without real nutrition. Depression and anxiety were rampant and while trying a new medication, I almost committed suicide.

Had I lost my faith? No, but I was certainly struggling. Besties, family, and church members were praying. One tenacious friend reached out and made it possible for me to try a nutrition program that drastically changed my life for the better. I returned to life and became able to write again. Rapunzel’s Journey was even finished on time thanks to my amazing other bestie and editor-extraordinaire. Surprisingly, I even started helping and inspiring friends to reclaim their health, and this became an important avenue for my overall health.

While I’d love to report that I am no longer battling migraines or mental health issues, I am struggling again. Fortunately, I am surrounded by great support. I am doing what I can to weather this particular storm. I’ve had these kinds of battles in the past and eventually they do pass.

Despite the mental and financial struggle* for myself and my family, I have found inspiration. A whole new set of characters have shown up, but not the ones I thought I’d be writing. Let me tell you about the surprise that is breathing new life, and lots of chuckles, into my writing.

*for those interested in offering support, click here.

Wacky Jackie Q.

Once upon a time (yes, it has to start this way), a little girl named Jackie loved to laugh and play. She had a melancholy side, but was mostly a sanguine, talkative (some might say “yacky”) child. When she grew up, she left behind her nickname of Jackie and adopted the more mature sounding “JacQueline”, but the Q kept her fun and quirky.

So, you guessed it. My name is JacQueline and as JacQueline, I’ve loved writing the more melancholy Rapunzel with several quirky characters to keep things jolly. Even during more dramatic, and often romantic, moments. And perhaps that is the common thread here. There may or may not be magic in everything I write (whether as JacQueline or Jackie Q. or whatever pen name I may go to next) but there will always be some romance. Because who can live without love? (and isn’t love true magic?)

Crazy Fun in Texas

But, let’s be real, right alongside that romance is that quirky, ridiculous tendency I have. Like maybe I’ve tried to kiss my husband in an ultra-suave move, but accidentally (HOW???) tripped and practically fallen on my face. Trust me, things like this happen when I’m around. (Prayers for my husband’s safety appreciated.)

So, when I realized I couldn’t write the next fairytale retelling series, I was pretty bummed. Then, some super silly friends (all my characters are friends) came along to cheer me up. Because what could be better than being (by the magic of imagination) transported to a German-Mexican town in Texas? Yes, all kinds of silly started happening to create The Love and Laughter series. You should see the menu for Bachmann-Hernandez Restaurant. (Was I inspired by New Braunsfels, TX? Just maybe *wink*wink*). This all and not to mention the goofy little businesses around the town square–like the florist/funeral home. My brain is a silly space.

* Get your free teeny-tiny prequel/sneak peek into the goofy town of Levercusin (mispronounced Leave Ya’ Cousin) here.

Who is Running the Asylum?

Do I really know what is going on? Well, as of writing this, I’m over half-way through drafting The Design and Destiny of Love (UPDATE: it’s now finished and available!). I’ve also gotten a good start on what I hope will be a FREE prequel and some on book 2. With my health and finances as they are currently, I can’t make any guarantees about when these books will be coming your way. But I’m hopeful (take that, depression!) that The Design and Destiny will be published fall of 2024 with the sequel (UPDATE: available for pre-order now) soon to follow. But, who knows?

What I DO know:

  • God is good and my books will have a redemptive, if silly, arc
  • Quirky will win the day
  • Pain loses in the end

Finally, are you one of those amazing generous individuals who likes to support the arts and/or those struggling with their health? Please check out my Patreon and consider becoming a patron, if that aligns with your values. Thank you as always for your prayers, friendship, and support!

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Do You Love Books More if You Read Fast or Slow?

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I feel like I keep coming across this strange guilt in the bookish community and it’s all related to the question, “Do you love books more if you read fast or slow?” The underlying theme is that only fast readers are truly living their best bookish lives now. But, how limiting is it to think that one pace is better than another without taking into account the many other factors that are in a reader’s life? I mean, it SOUNDS like having a life where all we do is read amazing books would be terrific, but that’s just not realistic (or actually living when you think about it!).

So I’m going to break down a few things that can contribute to living life well no matter how fast or slow or whatever your pace is for reading.

Taking a quick reading break while I write my next novel in Rapunzel’s Journey.

Are you a Fast Reader?

Did you know that there are people who read a book a day? I didn’t, not for a long time. Perhaps I had hints of it in the summertime when my bookish (read that: nerdy) friends and I would hole up to “recover” from the rigors of academia by getting lost among the pages of a fantasy world. And I realized that my friends were out-reading me. NOT that it was a competition or that I felt threatened or anything, but still. I remember wondering why I couldn’t read faster like them.

I had long thought of myself as a fast-reader because my mother, who was “slow” according to her own definition, always told me I was. And I thought kindly of myself in this area of my life, until I started comparing my own pace with my exceptional friends who could and did read faster. It didn’t completely steal the joy of my reading life, but I did squirm a little. Maybe I wasn’t the book nerd I thought I was.

Fast-forward to having a family of my own and living the life of a young mother, only able to read a chapter or two a day outside of my Bible reading. Taking my role as guardian and protector alongside my husband very seriously, I tried to read ahead of them. But my early readers were gifted students who had plenty of reading time. But that felt like an excuse to me. Maybe I was just a slow reader after all.

Being a Slow Reader

During this hectic season of my life, I tried to read to please others. I was reading nonfiction that my husband wanted to be able to discuss with me as he made his way through seminary. I was previewing and reading books that I was concerned might have mature content my early readers weren’t ready for yet. My reading life, once a refuge and cozy way to relax and unwind became a chore, another thing to finish up as quickly as possible so I could get to the next thing. Not surprisingly, my writing also suffered at this time.

My pace in reading slowed as my interest in the subject matter waned. But when I allowed myself to reach for books I wanted (I’m thankful for you, Hunger Games, for reigniting my love of reading) then the magic happened again. I won’t say that library due dates didn’t still stress me out, but when I realized that I could easily check out ebooks for extended lengths of time, I relished the books I was able to gobble up. I reclaimed my favorite way to unwind and also allowed myself time to think about the books I was reading. Because that is a huge part of the reading life for me. I can’t just read book after book after book unless I also take time to think about it {and usually find someone to discuss it with me}.

Reading in Different Seasons of Life

I’ve now had several stops and starts in this reading life. When the pandemic hit in 2020, my reading and writing life also took a hit and I realized that I am in fact a pretty moody reader. Making peace with that, and helping other readers make peace with that, has freed me up to enjoy lots of genres in lots of formats and at various paces. When I read romantic comedy, I generally read fast, often in a day or just a few days. When I read angsty ya fantasy, it will take at least a week, sometimes a month if I need more time to sit with the implications of the book. Historical fiction can be similar, but romantic suspense all depends on the pacing of the actual book.

I’ve found that for me reading several books at once is freeing. That way I can be making my way through a slower read that I can ponder while reading something lighter faster. I have different things I do while reading these books, sometimes I exercise while read an ebook, or I listen to an audiobook while cleaning, or read a hardback while taking a bath. If that makes me weird, it’s totally okay, I am having a great time with lots of books and usually not mixing them up. It works for me in the season of life I’m in right now.

Say “NO!” to undue Reader Guilt

Lately, I’ve talked to readers who feel the pressure to read faster and hurry up and conquer their TBR pile. I get it! We who love reading want to be able to get to the latest release everyone’s raving over. But it’s as though we’ve forgetten how privileged we are to have all these awesome books to get to in our own good time. We are missing out on our blessings. And I hate that.

As a writer, I’ve watched my readers practice wildly different paces with Rapunzel’s Journey. Some of the readers like to take my series fast, reading a book in one sitting. Others read a chapter or two a day, taking a month to read and think through each book. Neither one is right, neither is better than the other. I just love when they reach out to discuss what they love or struggled with in the stories.

That’s the kind of reading that benefits everyone. When you read at your own pace, content in your current season, counting your reading among your favorite blessings. You may watch your TBR pile diminish quickly or slowly, but you are making progress either way. I think we should all celebrate that. And it’s not the end of the world if you go a day without reading, I just probably won’t.

Loving Books and the Reading Life No Matter How Fast or Slow

So, what do you think? Do you love to read more if you’re fast or slow? Or do you think, like me, that there’s a flaw in that question. Some people are just fast people, and others of us are slower. We are still living and loving our lives, books in hand, smiles on our faces. Right?

If you are looking for free, short read, I’d love for you to download your copy of Before the Tower here and see if Rapunzel’s Journey is a series you would enjoy. The prequel tells of two sisters, one curse, and the betrayal that led to Rapunzel’s tower.

About JacQueline

As the author of  The Journey series, a young adult fantasy retelling Rapunzel’s misadventures, JacQueline also wrote Memoirs of a Headcase: Held by the God of Hope, to share hope in the battle against chronic pain and depression. Currently she lives in North Alabama with her karate husband and three book-crazy kids. All opinions expressed on this website come from her own experience. Do not substitute it for professional therapy or medical advice. Any affiliate links used on this website will provide additional income to JacQueline’s family at no additional cost to you.

If you are a reader wanting to connect with JacQueline, you can get a free book here. Each month you will receive book recommendations and other booknerd fun. 

Are you a writer or an author looking for help? JacQueline has been writing all her life and loves meeting others who think writing is living. As an author coach, helping other writers on their journey gives her joy. Schedule your free coaching call to learn what steps you should take next now.

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5 of the GREATEST Heroes {and Why We Love Them}

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Among us silly bookworms, 5 of the GREATEST Heroes {and why we love them} will not be something we can all agree on. It is intensely personal as to what draws someone to a hero. Go ahead and ask the nearest bibliophile, “What makes a hero great?” Depending on who you ask you might get a varied list:

  • a chiseled jawline
  • dry wit
  • unshakeable faith
  • strength of character
  • washboard abs
  • fierce loyalty
  • mysterious past
  • brooding eyes
  • playful smile

. . . I could go on. In fact, I will. But my personal list will be less about physicality and more about what motivates him. There is no way to discuss what makes him great without a few spoilers, but please have grace with me.

I’ve chosen the following 5 GREATEST heroes from my favorite book series. No one hero has it all and no man should have to live up to the reputation of any fictional character. But, I have discovered that the heroes I’m drawn to tell me a lot more about my husband than I realized for a long time. I wonder if the same is true for you and the man in your life (or in your future).

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Greatest Hero #1: Gilbert Blythe from the Anne of Green Gables series

Of course I started with Gilbert Blythe. How could I not? He is one of the defining heroes that set the bar pretty high in terms of who I am willing sigh over. Fiercely loyal? Definitely, though it hurt him at times. Mischievous nature and playful smile? Both get him into trouble with Anne right from the start, making her a challenge that he pursues and finally wins over. But I love how he does it in stages and though he is besotted by her, he doesn’t lose sight of his own personal goals.

Since they match each other in intelligence, they are constantly pushing each other for the highest honors throughout grade school and throughout college. So, this hero is good for the heroine and brings out the best in her. His sense of humor also tempers our overly dramatic heroine. (My husband, bless him, does that for me) And loyal? He is, as he works his hardest to help provide for his family as a young adult and later for himself, Anne, and their children. Finally, what profession does he choose? He becomes a doctor during a time when they weren’t paid well, and that is very noble and swoon-worthy in my estimation.

Greatest Hero #2: Harry Potter from the Harry Potter series

How can we not all have a little crush on Harry Potter? The abused orphan/chosen one who is destined to save his magical world against all odds? Yes, yes, yes!

Things I love about Harry Potter include:

  • his sense of humor
  • his deep loyalty to his friends
  • even his deep flaws (like his temper)

The very people he surrounds himself with are those who make him stronger and better. He doesn’t play lone wolf too often, and when he does, he learns from his mistakes. By the end of the series, he has become the hero we all hoped he would be back when he was just an orphan locked under the stairs.

Publishing this post during the Christmas season of 2021. There’s been a lot of sadness in our world these past 20 months, I’m thankful for great books with the greatest heroes that make me *happy sigh* LOL 🙂

Greatest Hero #3: Wesley from The Princess Bride

Okay, I have never done this before, but I’m including a character from a book I haven’t read. YET! Instead, I’ve memorized the movie and discussed it at length with a friend who did read the book. Hey, it’s on my TBR and I just COULDN’T leave Wesley off this list!

First, though at the beginning of his journey our hero is just “farm boy,” he shows wisdom in the way that he woos his heroine, Buttercup. He keeps doing things for her and saying “as you wish”–umm, do YOU know a woman who wouldn’t love to have a man say and follow through with that?

Having earned her love, he travels off into the world to earn her hand, showing himself to be self-sacrificial from the very start. He goes on to show he is a man of many talents, what he doesn’t know, he is determined to learn, all in the name of getting back to the woman he loves. You guys, he becomes a PIRATE, and for some reason, that is so swashbuckling and all things awesome.

  • he becomes a master swordsman
  • he uses his brain against brawn
  • he develops an immunity to poison
  • he outwits the fire swamp

I love that he’s a strategist and the perfect foil for the nasty Prince Humperdink. And yes, evidently, heals quickly.

Greatest Hero #4: Wolf from The Lunar Chronicles

Okay, so I’m not really into paranormal-shifter books. I’m not saying I never will be, it’s just not my thing right now. But there is one hero from Marissa Meyer’s Lunar Chronicles that I adore, and it is Wolf. Just like his name sounds, he is some sort of human genetically altered into a wolf. Kinda. And his instincts are to be loyal to his pack and fulfill his mission.

But, as the book Scarlet is a sci-fi retelling/retwisting of Little Red Riding Hood, Wolf has a massive redemption arc. And you know I love a great story of redemption. I love the twists and turns that reveal who he is truly loyal to and protective of. And, as so many readers are saying these days, “I. Am. Here. For. It.”

Greatest Hero #5: Paul from Rapunzel’s Journey series

{forgive me, I will include a few spoilers from my series, but nothing you shouldn’t know if you are familiar with the original Rapunzel story from Grimm’s Complete Fairy Tales}

When I first discovered Paul, he was listening to Rapunzel sing at night, unable to reach the woman he longs for since she is incarcerated in her doorless tower. Night after night he puzzled out how to get to her. The hunter in him prince loved the challenge. And once he found his way to her, I really fell in love with him. He was:

  • careful with her heart
  • respected her mind
  • shared his faith with her
  • wanted to help free her

Of course, he wasn’t perfect and got a little cocky about his ability to free her. Honestly, this makes him a little lovable to me, because it makes him human. And he paid for it dearly when the witch pushed him from the tower and, it seemed to Rapunzel, died.

But Paul, we find out later, is living under a spell on another island loyally serving a lord. Though bewitched, he is still gentle with her. When he discovers she is engaged, he wants her to decide who to love. He never pushes, but remains steadfast in his love. Later in the series, he grows past some insecurities and becomes an amazing mentor for other struggling young men.

So, yes, he reminds me greatly of my awesome husband. *Happy sigh*

You can purchase my series at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, my bookshop, or get the ebooks free on Amazon in KU (Kindle Unlimited). {For a limited time, all 4 paperbacks are under $40 USD on Amazon. 🙂 Merry Christmas!}

Bonus Hero #6: Rhys from Falling for Your Enemy

First of all, I have developed a major addiction to Sweet/Closed Door Rom-Coms this past year, and I blame Emma St. Clair. So I had to include one on this list. If you need a break from ya fantasy or the classic books you love, I highly recommend you pick up Emma St. Clair’s Love Cliche Series. Every single book includes a swoony hero and when you get to the last book, 5 of the Greatest Heroes {and why we love them} becomes apparent.

For me specifically, though Thayden almost won my heart in this series, I have to give the award to Rhys. And it’s going to make you laugh, but I understood so much more about my relationship with my husband after reading this book. Rhys:

  • is grumpy
  • has a dry wit
  • protects those he loves (oh, his grand gesture is AMAZING!)
  • has a secret wound he eventually confronts
  • is an amazing friend
  • makes Sam (the heroine) better

This book really needs to be read at the end of the series, and if you don’t love Rhys by the end, you may be lacking a soul. Just kidding. Maybe. Seriously, go buy it or listen to the audiobooks!

5 of the Greatest Heroes {and why we love them}

So, to recap, I’m a sucker for any intelligent man who puts others before himself, is fiercely loyal, and loves unconditionally. And evidently, I also like them a little grumpy with a dry wit that makes me laugh till I cry. But that’s me, what about you? You can comment here or hop over to Instagram where I shared this silly reel about heroes I love and tell me all about who else I should have included.

For more Book Recommendations, please visit my Complete List of Book Recommendations page or head over to my Bookshop that supports indie bookstores.

About JacQueline

As the author of  The Journey series, a young adult fantasy retelling Rapunzel’s misadventures, JacQueline also wrote Memoirs of a Headcase: Held by the God of Hope, to share hope in the battle against chronic pain and depression. Currently she lives in North Alabama with her karate husband and three book-crazy kids. All opinions expressed on this website come from her own experience. Do not substitute it for professional therapy or medical advice. Any affiliate links used on this website will provide additional income to JacQueline’s family at no additional cost to you.

If you are a reader wanting to connect with JacQueline, you can get a free book here. Each month you will receive book recommendations and other booknerd fun. 

Are you a writer or an author looking for help? JacQueline has been writing all her life and loves meeting others who think writing is living. As an author coach, helping other writers on their journey gives her joy. Schedule your free coaching call to learn what steps you should take next now.

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8 Frightening Books to Read this Halloween

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Though I used to not celebrate Halloween, I have found an odd acceptance with the holiday. I have discovered great joy in passing out candy, watching movies with my kids, and allowing myself the treat of a book that gives me chills. Not a fan of Stepen King, I prefer instead gothic horror and the sublime. So, if you are like me and looking for, oh, let’s say 8 frightening books to read this Halloween? Read on and I’ll also point you where to find them.

NOTE: Some links are affiliate, meaning I will receive a small commission with no additional charge to you.

Frightening Books to Read: Frankenstein

I have long wanted to read the story of Frankenstein, so when Smidgen Press hired me to write both the book description and the introduction to their gorgeous republication, I dove in, learning the backstory and preparing to be swept away by what some have called the original science fiction novel in the gothic horror style.

When Mary Shelley, deep in grief, was visiting with friends, Lord Byron made a challenge. Their odd group of gothic romantics living alternative and, for their time, scandalous lives, were dared to write chilling ghost stories.

By this point in history, Mary was acquainted with Luigi Galvini’s experimentation with the use of electricity on dead animals. She also knew of Galvini’s nephew’s reanimation of the body of an executed murderer. The inevitability of science going too far no longer seemed a leap of the imagination. 

The often depressed Mary might be likened to the obsessed Victor Frankenstein, the doctor she created for her story. While Dr. Frankenstein pieced together a new creation from several corpses, she stitched together the fearful news from the scientific front, envisioning a world where the creation makes a monster of its creator. See the full-size or adorable “pocket-size” available from Smidgen Press here.

Frightening Books to Read: Northanger Abbey

Northanger Abbey remains the only completed novel of Jane Austen’s that I have yet to read. When my sister bought me this lovely set of Jane Austen’s novels for Christmas, I was stunned. I KNEW this would be the year that I finally read Northanger Abbey. What’s more? I knew that October was the perfect month to do it in.

The story follows Catherine Moreland, a girl who has been spoiled by reading too many novels. When she visits love interest Henry Tilney’s family estate, she begins to try and unravel the mysteries she feels certain are there. I am looking forward to things that go bump in the night in this classic. And best of all will be Miss Austen’s satirical wit. Get this stunning clothbound edition with keys stitched on the cover here.

Frightening Books to Read: Jane Eyre

Jane Eyre is one of my all-time favorite classic books. Yes, it takes a little while to get into. Once Jane is off to Thornfield Hall, the stage is set for mystery with just enough horror and a bit of supernatural. The sound of madness cackling in laughter? The fear of being burnt alive in your bed? The nightmares that ominously point toward danger? All this and more totally kept me flipping through the pages. If I have time this October, I may pick it up again! Get this beautiful clothbound edition here.

Frightening Books to Read: House of Salt and Sorrows

Anyone who knows me should know that I adore a good fairy tale retelling. After all, as an author, that’s what I do! And a retelling based on both The Twelve Dancing Princesses AND Edgar Allen Poe’s The Raven? What could be more eerily perfect for Halloween? My only caution is this. I recommend this book for older adolescents. If not, then read with a trusted adult to navigate some of the darker and more mature themes.

Set in the fantasy world where Poseidon lives, you can almost taste the salt of tears and waves. As Annaleigh recounts the deaths of her mother and subsequent sisters, the grief is heavy. There were once twelve, but the creepy knowledge that someone is stealing these lives permeates the pages. Darkness hovers like a ghost looming just out-of-sight. Is Annaleigh in danger, or has grief driven her mad? Get it here.

Frightening Books to Read: The Hazel Wood (series)

Even darker than The House of Salt and Sorrows is my next frightening suggestion. Melissa Albert’s masterfully crafted Hazel Wood series is perfect for anyone who enjoys the darker, bone-chilling side of fairy tales and can tolerate profanity. Alice and her mother have lived their life together always moving. They are trying to keep one step ahead of something that is chasing them. But when her mother is taken, Alice finds only a note telling her to “STAY AWAY FROM THE HAZEL WOOD”. Only Alice and her new friend can discover the truth.

Be prepared to read the original duology in quick succession. The ending of The Hazel Wood needs the conclusion of The Night Country to bring solid resolution. I do not recommend these books to young readers as they have such a sharp edge and are moored in moral ambiguity that I believe requires some maturity to handle. But that is my personal opinion, and I leave the decision up to each family/reader to make. You can get them here.

Frightening Books to Read: Before the Tower and Beyond the Tower

At last, I would like to invite you to travel with Rapunzel for some chilling adventures. When I first began writing, I had no idea how many dark and twisty paths we would be traveling together. From the betrayal that led to her imprisonment, to meeting Bluebeard, and losing her way in the Dark Wood, Rapunzel’s Journey is set in a fantasy world at odds with magic and filled with secrets. Like all of the above books, the storytelling begins slowly. Be prepared for it to weave its spell over you until you NEED to know what’s behind the door or at the end of the path.

I recommend you grab these frightening books to read for FREE. You can get the prequel, Before the Tower, here or book 1, Beyond the Tower, here. Yep, for now you can discover a portal into Rapunzel’s World and start your journey alongside her. But I’m frightened (<–see what I did there?) that I won’t be able to offer them for free much longer. Jury’s still out, but for now they are both still free and I’ll just update this article if and when I have to change that.

Your Turn

So, like always at the end of one of my articles, I will now turn it over to you. I would love to hear which of these 8 frightening books to read for Halloween you are going to pick up–if any. And if, in fact you like straight-up horror and have a hard time with more classic titles or descriptive young adult fantasy, what books would YOU recommend for this creepy time of the year? Let me know in the comments, on Instagram (where I make silly reels about books), or by contacting me here if you’re a little shy. I LOVE talking books and would consider it an honor to hear from you!

If you need more book recommendations from me, I have a curated list here or you can head over to my bookshop here.

About JacQueline

As the author of  The Journey series, a young adult fantasy retelling Rapunzel’s misadventures, JacQueline also wrote Memoirs of a Headcase: Held by the God of Hope, to share hope in the battle against chronic pain and depression. Currently she lives in North Alabama with her karate husband and three book-crazy kids. All opinions expressed on this website come from her own experience. Do not substitute it for professional therapy or medical advice. Any affiliate links used on this website will provide additional income to JacQueline’s family at no additional cost to you.

If you are a reader wanting to connect with JacQueline, you can get a free book here. Each month you will receive book recommendations and other booknerd fun. 

Are you a writer or an author looking for help? JacQueline has been writing all her life and loves meeting others who think writing is living. As an author coach, helping other writers on their journey gives her joy. Schedule your free coaching call to learn what steps you should take next now.

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How can Books Connect You to Your Favorite People?

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At my house, we love books. When I say we love books, I mean we are reading constantly. Taking my kids to the library or the bookstore is a timed event. If it isn’t, we lose track of time completely and wonder hours later why we are grumpy and hungry. Might be because we missed a meal while trying to convince ourselves we can realistically read through fifty titles in the next two weeks.

So, yes, we might be a little obsessive about books. And you might be thinking that’s great for your imagination and some alone time . . . But, how can books connect you to your favorite people?

Beware Introverts, Reading can be Social!

Books and reading imply a solitary activity, right? Something you do by yourself, sitting on a couch with your feet tucked beneath you, a nice hot mug of something soothing at your side. It is the respite from being with other people, not having to come up with the right words to say. Right? Well, reading certainly can be that {and all the introverts breathed a sigh of relief}. But, it can also be something different. It can actually be the thing that brings your family or group of friends together. All you need is a little imagination and a good book.

Fandoms, Buddy Reads, Book Clubs, and Literary Societies

What can be more exciting than discovering commonality between two people? When readers connect over a beloved book, author, or make-believe world, it takes very little for that connection to become a fandom. The literary love dominates conversations and “what-if” questions crop up constantly. Pretty soon, you have best friends grabbing books at the same time to have their own buddy reads so they can discuss as they go. Or a larger group might choose a different book each month in order to really dig deep into what they did or didn’t like. Perhaps even better is the idea of a literary society where everyone is reading their own book and then meeting up to give a review and present their case for why everyone should read the book they just fell in love with. Persuasive arguments can get loud and silly at times, just adding to joy of it all.

Book Discussions on the Fly

In my family we have done ALL of the above. And in so doing, we are constantly discussing this or that book issue, problem, dream, whatever. Wouldn’t it be great if it were done in an organized manner with a thoughtful leader who can steer the group seamlessly from point A to point B to point C? Sure, and I bet there are people out there like that. But {spoiler alert} not only am I not like that, but my family is not like that. We are big mess and we hop from one thing to another as our thoughts and discussions collide with whatever events surround us. This means what we read helps us, or distracts us, from understanding the world and the people around us.

For example, our family comes from a more conservative background, but we read and discuss things that may not line up with our beliefs. We want to know other viewpoints so that we can educate ourselves and be considerate friends and neighbors to those who may not think like us or share the same values. This means my husband and I have to do a great deal of research and encourage our kids to as well. It’s uncomfortable at times and there have been occasions where we inadvertently exposed our kids to something we hadn’t anticipated. But because we were discussing things as we went, we walked alongside our kids and evaluated the opinions and decisions along the way.

Bookish Activities to Bring You Together

Another way to use books to connect with your favorite people is to actually engage in the activities that a book recommends. Love The Secret Garden? Why not create your very own garden together? It’s amazing the ways people open up when they are working outside together. Kids love Percy Jackson? Have a Percy Jackson day and play capture the flag and eat some blue food. You might be surprised as you ask your favorite people what they love about the stories that they start talking about Percy’s frustrations, anger, or fun sense of humor. For more fun ideas on how to create a Book Week, visit this blog for inspiration.

Use Books to Connect to Your Favorite People

So, next time you connect with a book, spend a moment and think about how to use that book to connect with one of your favorite people. As a friend, wife, and mother, I’ve discovered that books are more than just a wonderful way to relax alone. If you want to find out more about books that help in this way, head over to my complete list of book recommendations that can link you with some great reads. And if you are looking for a free one to start with, I’d love to send you mine if you click here. You’ll have the option of joining my monthly newsletter where I will continue to connect you with great book recommendations and bookish fun. As always, you can unsubscribe at any time, no hard feelings.

Now it’s your turn, how have you or will you use books to connect to your favorite people?

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About JacQueline

As the author of  The Journey series, a young adult fantasy retelling Rapunzel’s misadventures, JacQueline also wrote Memoirs of a Headcase: Held by the God of Hope, to share hope in the battle against chronic pain and depression. Currently she lives in North Alabama with her karate husband and three book-crazy kids. All opinions expressed on this website come from her own experience. Do not substitute it for professional therapy or medical advice. Any affiliate links used on this website will provide additional income to JacQueline’s family at no additional cost to you.

If you are a reader wanting to connect with JacQueline, you can get a free book here. Each month you will receive book recommendations and other booknerd fun. 

Are you a writer or an author looking for help? JacQueline has been writing all her life and loves meeting others who think writing is living. As an author coach, helping other writers on their journey gives her joy. Schedule your free coaching call to learn what steps you should take next now.

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6 Easy {and FUN} Ways to Share the Book Love

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Have you have ever reached the end of a book and gotten excited to find another book by the same author? They have brought joy and happiness to your life, so now you want MORE! And if you are a certain type of reader, you want to let that author know how much you love their books. Believe me, I understand. As a bookworm and mom to book nerds myself, I have looked for ways to let authors know how much we appreciate their work. And now that I have a long running series of books retelling Rapunzel’s misadventures published myself, I have been thrilled to have readers reach out to me. So read on if you are excited to learn 6 easy {and FUN} ways to share the book love!

Easy Way #1: Book Recommendations ROCK!

It is well-known in the author community that the best marketing is word of mouth. When readers love your books so much that they have to talk their friends into reading them too, life is amazing. And honestly? It is super easy to do. All you need is to consider who might enjoy a book you love. Aunt Wilma who loves gardening and women’s fiction? She will love Francine River’s book, Leota’s Garden. And your best friend MacKenzie who teaches middle grade English and loves fantasy should check out S.J. Howland’s The Traveller’s Stone or R.V. Bowman’s The Pirate Princess Chronicles. Did your roommate from college adore rom-coms? Please tell her to grab Emma St. Clair’s Love Cliche series.

I do this all the time. Just picture me using that cute little send button on my kindle app to share recommendations with my contacts when I read something I know they will love. I never have to even get up, and it clicks me right back over to my book. This costs maybe 2-5 minutes of your time and your friend feels special because you connected them with something you love.

Easy Way #2: Bookworms Having FUN on Social Media

Now, not everyone is social media guru, and that is totally okay. You don’t have to be a famous #bookstagrammer over on Instagram taking intricate photos of book flatlays or book shelfies unless you enjoy it. {And hey, if you do enjoy it, connect with me here, because I love it, too.} But if that’s not your thing, but you do want to give a favorite author or book some love, here are a few ideas. Share a quote you love on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram using appropriate hashtags. Make a Tiktok video or Reel dancing with the book and share the fun silliness with your followers. Go live and talk about the book and why it means so much to you. Create a “Books to Read” board on Pinterest and pin it there. I bet once you start looking around social media, you’ll find enjoyable creative ways to share your love for the book and author, which also helps your followers feel more connected with and valued by you.

Easy Way #3: Highlight in Your Kindle

I must give some credit with this tip. Thanks to @kikimojo, who writes under the pen names Emma St. Clair and Sullivan Grey, on Instagram for letting us know that authors can see important passages readers highlight in their Kindle. She uses those highlights to help her market her books! In fact, you can look them up, too, by going into your app and clicking popular highlights. If you are looking to share quotes, it’s already done for you! Want to spread the love further? Don’t just highlight in your Kindle, make sure to publish your highlights on Goodreads and then all your followers there will see what passages made the book special to you. Such an easy way to share the book love!

Easy Way #4: Ask For Your Best Books at the Library

Raise your hand if you are tight on funds but still want ALL THE BOOKS? Yep, you can’t see me, but I just raised my hand. Most public libraries, especially in the USA, have a certain portion of their budget set aside to acquire new titles every year. Some people might think that this rips off the author as the book gets bought only once and then is borrowed over and over again. Let me tell you, that’s just not true. First of all, libraries have a different purchasing model because of the borrowing system. Also, libraries create life-long readers who often check out books and go on to purchase their favorites and become rabid fans. What author WOULDN’T want to be part of a system that feeds into fandoms? Make sure to talk to your librarian, or just dig around on your library’s website to find how you can get your requests in. And make sure to check it out and encourage your friends to as well if your library purchases it. You definitely want your favorite author and their books to get a great reputation with those hard-working librarians!

Easy Way #5: Follow Your Favorite Author and Get Free Books!

What is better than receiving a free book? Umm, not much, right? If you follow your favorite author on Goodreads, you will get notified every time they are doing a giveaway. I am following a ton of authors over there and love getting little notifications of their giveaways and later when the book comes out. I loved the giveaway I did with Goodreads last year and look forward to shipping off more book boxes in the future, so feel free to follow me here.

Want more? If you join your favorite author’s mailing list, there is usually a free book as an incentive. Before the Tower, the prequel to Rapunzel’s Journey, is my freebie for joining my list. I love hearing from readers about how they have enjoyed knowing what came before Rapunzel was imprisoned in her tower. And many, many authors (including me!) will give even more free books to those who become part of their review team. You get a free book and copy and paste your honest review on several online retailers and/or all over social media. How fun and easy is that?

Easy Way #6: Become a Patron and Support Great Books

Did you know that you can directly influence how much time your author has to keep writing those books you love? I didn’t know about this till recently, either. A long time ago, wealthy aristocrats would support poor, starving artists, musicians, and authors monetarily so that they could afford to create their masterpieces. The idea was if their physical needs were met, they could continue pouring their hearts and souls into creating those works of art. Now, most of us artistic types aren’t funded by billionaires. We do, however, have “patrons” who supply different levels of support and we give back with early access to our works, etc. Creating my own Patreon account with several different levels has been so fun for me, and I was thrilled to see that patrons could give as little as a dollar a month and hop off if their finances or interests change. You can learn more by clicking here on my Patreon. Be sure to use the search bar to look up other authors you might want to support. Thank you in advance!

Which of these 6 Easy {and FUN} Ways to Share the Book Love Are You Going to Try?

So, there you have it, 6 easy {and FUN} ways you can share the book love. Whether you’re online, at the library, or making a monthly donation, there is always a simple way you can help your most treasured books keep getting written. Which one will you be trying? Let me know in the comments or by sending me a message!

About JacQueline

As the author of  The Journey series, a young adult fantasy retelling Rapunzel’s misadventures, JacQueline also wrote Memoirs of a Headcase: Held by the God of Hope, to share hope in the battle against chronic pain and depression. Currently she lives in North Alabama with her karate husband and three book-crazy kids. All opinions expressed on this website come from her own experience. Do not substitute it for professional therapy or medical advice. Any affiliate links used on this website will provide additional income to JacQueline’s family at no additional cost to you.

If you are a reader wanting to connect with JacQueline, you can get a free book here. Each month you will receive book recommendations and other booknerd fun.

Are you a writer or an author looking for help? JacQueline has been writing all her life and loves meeting others who think writing is living. As an author coach, helping other writers on their journey gives her joy. Schedule your free coaching call to learn what steps you should take next now.

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